Sweet Summer

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Our lives seem to have this small circumference right now. I'm not sure exactly what I mean by that but I've felt a sort of pulling in. When deciding what to do I'll choose the easiest, most do-able option, treading ground that's familiar and simple, staying in the slow lane. It feels like an instinct, some primitive reaction to the world at large (while trying to process the large, often terrible things in it, and failing, failing) making the same recipes over and over, cleaning the house, going to bed early. My days alone with Amelia are long and light and sweet; suddenly toddlerhood feels different, less about mitigating meltdowns and more about true communication, shared emotions, playing at so much make-believe, doing drawings of things ("This is a house, laughing; this is a flower, going down the stairs"), giving and getting the sweetest kisses and hugs. I've listened to almost all of the Janet Lansbury toddler-parenting podcasts in the past couple of months and they've added a lightness to my heart and sharpened my perspective on what's important to me, parenting-wise (and Andy; we see pretty much eye-to-eye on all parenting stuff). Watching Amelia play her days away is so fascinating and funny and just excellent. Listening to toddlers talking to each other is just about the sweetest thing in the world. She is no wallflower, and gravitates toward the slightly older girls, four or five years old. She walks up to them and says, "Hi! I'm Amelia! What's your name?" Then she'll look over to me and shout, "Mom! I made a friend!" Huge smile. Heart explosion into a thousand pieces of salt-water taffy, every color of the rainbow. I pray for peace for our children. All of them, everywhere.

When I've had some free time, I've been sewing a bit. The pink dress is the Hattie from Brownie Goose, and the pocket dress is Simplicity 8087 from Ashley of Lazy Daisy Jones. Super cute, and reminds me so much of the house-dresses that my grandma used to make for herself — also calicos, always simple A-line dresses with patch pockets, short sleeves, and bias-tape bindings. I don't think I ever saw my grandma in anything but a dress like this, though she preferred black and navy calicos. The fabrics were always worn so soft. I can picture them now. I wish I had a couple of those dresses now. I bought the Ann Carolyn smock pattern by Odacier for myself after seeing some really cute versions on Instagram so maybe I'll have some cute clothes too, one of these days.

Here is a meltdown: Yesterday Amelia was putting on a cute pair of mint-green jean shorts from Baby Gap and she freaked out. "Mom, the tag is in the back but the pockets are in the back! Why are the pockets in the back, Mom? Nooooo! Whyyyyyyyy? Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?" Tears streaming down her face, very Nancy-Kerriganesque. Apparently the child has never seen a pair of jeans before. This is how you know you're a serious home sew-er (of mostly dresses).

The weather here has been, dare I say, practically perfect in every way. Cool. Bright. Sunny. Cloudy. Not too hot. Not too cold. If Mary Poppins and Goldilocks had a baby it would be the weather in Portland lately. Thumbs up there.

I'm starting to collect reading material and knitting projects for our cross-country train trip later this month. Cozy mysteries, and a fair-isle sweater for Amelia's birthday. Recommendations for cozy mysteries appreciated (they need to be reeeeeally cozy, and not too scary)! ***Oh, and yes, I've read almost all of Agatha Raisin! :) Love curmudgeons! Thank you!

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There's so many good recommendations! Kerry Greenwood is a favourite author of mine, the Phryne Fisher series in particular are wonderful, I love the details of the food and fashion which are woven into the stories. It's also a TV series on Netflix if you feel like watching instead of reading.

Damsonlily says: August 05, 2016 at 09:08 AM

If you are feeling a little bit adventurous, you might try Marjorie Allingham, who wrote the Campion novels. Campion is a sort of private detective but who seems to have an private income as well. Sometimes a bit scary but very clever and well worth reading. A bit British stiff upper lip kind of thing. There have been TV series as well, some time ago now.
Has anyone mentioned Agatha Christie? Our British queen of crime.
The Flavia de Luce novels had me laughing out loud, as does Agatha Raisin. And I would wholeheartedly endorse Alexander McCall-Smith's Isabel Dalhousie novels, very easy to read and beautifully written. He also wrote The No.1 Ladies Detective Agency series, which gives a a gentle, funny yet very perceptive view of women earning their own living in Africa.
Lastly, if you get and enjoy the TV series Midsomer Murders in the USA, you might like Caroline Graham's books about Inspector Barnaby.

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Was wondering where you got the yellow gingham. Gingham is really hard to find in my area.
Thanks,

Very late to the party but have just trawled through all the comments for some reading inspiration.
Second Louise Penny and you have to read Donna Leon's Inspector Brunetti set in Venice also recommended by someone. Also Andrea Camillieri's series set in Sicily with Inspector Montalbano.

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My name is Alicia Paulson
and I love to make things. I live with my husband and daughter in Portland, Oregon, and design sewing, embroidery, knitting, and crochet patterns. See more about me at aliciapaulson.com

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